This past week was hard.

Training with Pamela: Overcoming Temptation
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I’ve struggled with depression off and on for a decade now, and I began a downward spiral in late 2008 that I have been sometimes inching, sometimes crawling out of for the past year, but when the conditions are right, I get down quickly and have trouble seeing that the sun really is still shining.

I had one of those episodes this week, and I’ll share part of the reason: being alone (not loneliness). I can be toxic to myself sometimes, and when I’m alone, I don’t have anyone to fake it for, and I don’t have anyone to shake me back to reality. I have been working on finding healthy coping strategies, like journaling, but the easiest–and least helpful and least lasting–is eating.

But that’s what got me to 34.9% body fat.

Tuesday night–after a challenging session with Pamela–I started spiraling, though not because of that workout! It was the success I am feeling with her that helped me focus on what I was doing when I felt down, to question my automatic response to the heavy feeling in my heart, and to make a good choice. I cleaned instead of driving to the corner gas station for one of my favorite emotional eating “meals”: a 32 ounce Dr. Pepper and a Tornado (a tortilla filled with pepper jack cheese and deep fried).

Then on Thursday night, after Pamela and I had carefully planned how I would make healthy choices during a night on the town and at a Springfield Cardinals ball game, our carefully laid plans fell apart, one by one. By the time I actually got to eat, it was 8:30, I was starving, and, being at a baseball stadium, I had limited options. I ended up eating brats and fries and a Coke.

That sucked.

But Pamela is having me keep a food journal. I don’t have to count calories or anything, but I need to write down everything that passes my lips. Before, when I would have a couple bad days, days when I felt like I had to make unhealthy choices or days when I didn’t have the emotional or mental strength to make healthy choices, I’d just let go and stop trying for a while. Now, that food journal is keeping me honest. I know that Pamela is going to check to see how many servings of veggies I ate every day. I know she’s going to want to discuss the poor choices I made. And I know that I am not going to want to have to give any excuses.

I love food, and that’s something that has always kept me from changing my eating for the better. But I am seriously unhappy with my body right now, so something has got to give.

And you want to know a secret? This is not too bad. I don’t feel like I’m giving anything up (except maybe Dr. Pepper…) Pamela encourages me to watch my portions and to include more vegetables, since I hardly ever eat them on my own. And that’s it. She hasn’t asked me to eliminate carbs or stop eating red meat. And when I start running and working out, my body craves better food anyway. Funny how that works, huh?

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